owambe mentality 2

i have blogged on this topic last year, but recent events have spurred the need to say one or two things about this topics. firstly can we define aso-ebi-- by literal definition it means relative`s outfits,in the 9ja sence very one is ur relative as long as they can afford the aso-ebi ,pls y do i have to spend 20k on aso-ebi even though am close to the celebrant, is it really necessary, should i spend so much for an outfit i might not really like, is it right to borrow money to pay for aso-ebi,i can`t understand the rationale behind this owambe mentality,what do u think